Divorce Abroad
For internationals navigating a relationship change while considering moving abroad.
This checklist is designed to help you take clear, informed steps if you're considering divorce while living internationally.
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Sample Agreements
This is not legal advice, but a guide to help you prepare emotionally, logistically, and strategically for your combined life.
Questions to Ask Yourself or Research
- What do I want my life to look like in 3 years?
- Do I want to stay in this country or return to my home country?
- What are my biggest fears? What answers would help calm them?
- How will this decision affect my children, my finances, and my immigration status?
Legal Preparation
- Consult a lawyer in your country of residence
- Consult a lawyer in your home/passport country (if applicable)
- Ask about which country’s laws apply to:
- Division of property
- Custody and visitation
- Spousal support
- Determine if you want to explore mediation or individual representation
- Ask about residency requirements and visa implications
Documents to Collect
- Marriage certificate
- Birth certificates of children
- Passports, visas, and residency permits
- Recent tax returns
- Pay slips or proof of income (both spouses)
- Bank statements, investment accounts, pensions
- Rental/mortgage agreements
- Prenuptial or postnuptial agreements (if applicable)
Financial Readiness
- Understand your income and expenses
- Begin tracking household spending
- Open a personal bank account (if you don’t already have one)
- Research local housing options and costs
- Consider talking to a financial advisor (ideally with expat experience)
Emotional & Practical Support
- Talk to a therapist or counselor
- Confide in 1-2 trusted friends or family members
- Identify childcare or school considerations
- Make a plan for how and when to communicate with your spouse
- Ask: Who is on my team for this next chapter?
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