In today’s episode, Mickelle sits down with Magali van Maanen, an international divorce lawyer and mediator based in the Netherlands who has become the quiet strength behind many successful cross-border separations. With nearly two decades of legal expertise and a deeply human approach, Magali shares invaluable insight into what happens when couples separate while living abroad - and how to do it with grace, strategy, and strength.

Growing up between cultures herself, Magali understands the emotional weight and logistical complexity that come with international divorce. She reminds us that consulting a lawyer isn’t the end of the road - it’s the beginning of taking back clarity and control. From understanding jurisdiction to preserving the wellbeing of your children, this episode is filled with golden advice for expats and international couples alike.

Key Moments:

• Planning Before Parting: Why seeing a lawyer early - even before a decision is made - can be empowering and clarifying.
• Magali’s Grounding Question: “What do you want your life to look like in three years?” A profound starting point for anyone considering change.
• Navigating Custody Across Borders: The surprising truths about where children can legally live during and after separation.
• Prenups, Postnups & Value in Transition: How to protect yourself and honor contributions - especially when moving abroad changes family roles.

Therapists + Lawyers = Dream Team: Why emotional support is just as essential as legal advice in making confident, values-aligned decisions.

Whether you’re planning a move abroad, on the brink of a big decision, or supporting a friend through separation, this conversation offers hope, tools, and perspective.

👉 Need support? Visit www.deboorderadvocaten.com to contact Magali van Maanen and explore how she can help you navigate your next chapter with wisdom and care.

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